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Workplace Culture: This Week’s Culture Killer

Culture KillerA culture killer is what ruins workplace culture in spite of your every effort.  When we were researching our new book, Happy to Work Here: understanding and improving the culture at work, we came to the conclusion that some toxic cultural behavior was the result of people adhering to certain unspoken rules. These rules are unspoken because they are, frankly, unspeakable. But despite the fact that you never hear anybody say them out loud, they can do considerable damage to your workplace culture.  it’s  these unspeakable unspoken rules that we refer to as “culture killers.”

Over the next few months we’ll be publishing here some of the culture killers from our book plus some additional one we’ve discovered since.  Come back here for a new culture killer every week.

The toxic rules and govern an organization can be fatal to healthy culture, but they are, paradoxially, some of the easiest things to fix. Each one is a clear indicator of actionable culture improvement. Once you identify a toxic, unspoken rule, repealing it can be as simple as bringing it into the light of day. When you say the rule out loud, the damage it can do will be readily apparent, as will the work needed to make it go away.

This week’s Unspoken Rule is the one that enables:

The “Sign of Weakness” Culture Killer

Is it a sign of weakness in your organization to say “I don’t know?” Is it a requirement that you be certain all the time?. There is a name for an annoying adult who hogs the conversation with dubious facts and stalwart opinions, often wrong, but never in doubt. Such a person is called a “know-it-all.”

There are some organizations that appear to be entirely populated with know-it-alls. Listen in on meetings, on groups trying to make a decision. How did the organization hire 100% know-it-alls?

It didn’t. It created them by establishing the perverse rule that admitting you don’t know something is admitting weakness.  You betray weakness by admitting you are not on top of it, no matter what it is.  The unspoken rule is:

Never say I don’t know, even if it’s true.

If you feel that you lose status by saying “I don’t know” recognize that you are living a fraud. Healthy organizations are full of I-don’t-know-admitters. Telling the truth is okay, really

You must have a story or two about the cultures, good and bad, that you’ve encountered, either in your present work or in your past.  Have you been fortunate enough to see wonderful workplace culture in action, and to what do you attribute it?  Or do have an unspoken rule damaging your culture?  If so, what do you suppose was its cause? Tell us about it: cultureproject@systemsguild.com

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